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• Purchase Responding to Criticism - Steve Andreas courses at here with PRICE $ $ One of the fundamental presuppositions of NLP is that “There is no such thing as failure, only feedback.” That's a nice thought, and it points in a very useful direction.
• However, for a majority of people it's just a cute sentence that doesn't automatically change their experience or response.
• Most people (roughly 70%) respond to criticism with immediate over¬whelming bad feelings.
• Then they try to climb out of the emotional hole they have just dug for themselves by rationalizing, trying to access a good state, trying to be objective, etc. Since they are already in a bad state, usually none of these attempts work very well.
• And since most of their efforts are directed at regaining a good state, they typically do not make good use of any feedback information contained in the criticism.